Every year the world has set aside a day to
celebrate the woman. We are forced to ask the question, who is a woman? I
define a woman simply as:
W – WONDERFUL
MOTHER
O – OUTSTANDING FRIEND
M – MARVELLOUS DAUGHTER
A – ADORABLE SISTER
N – NICEST GIFT TO CHILDREN FROM GOD.
O – OUTSTANDING FRIEND
M – MARVELLOUS DAUGHTER
A – ADORABLE SISTER
N – NICEST GIFT TO CHILDREN FROM GOD.
Women are great
to have and to be. Without them we won’t have got some of the great leaders we
have today and even us.
There is an
English saying that goes “behind a successful man there is a woman”. This
saying sums it up all. But there is something on this my definition of a woman
that I want us to look at. The W and the N. This essentially tells us that a
woman is also a mother.
I would add
parallelly that behind any successful leader there is mother. Mothers have
always given impact to great leaders and to society. They mold and carve out
society and its leaders. They are the true leaders. It does not surprise me
that the vast majority of calls that I receive from my children’s home are from
their mothers. Mothers have this instinctive quality to lead children. When I
was a kid, I once asked my mother why I studied arithmetic. She said I should
look everywhere. Do I see triangles or not? Do I see other shapes too? Do I see
numbers in money? Do I want to be
cheated by my siblings when they have to share “pieces of fried chicken”
amongst us? I see this response valid to date. It actually lead me to love
mathematics and science. Such is the response of a leader. Such is the response
of a mother. I would like to tell you a story on the importance of having a
mother:
The story starts
when a boy meets his mother crying…
Why are you crying, a young boy once asked his Mom one day?
"Because I'm a woman," she told him.
"I don't understand," he said.
His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will, but that's O.K.".......
Later the little boy asked his father,
"Why does Mom seem to cry for no reason?".
"All women cry for no reason," was all his Dad could say......
The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry.
Finally he put in a call to God and when God got back to him, he asked "God, why do women cry so easily?"
GOD answered.... ..
"When I made woman,
I decided she had to be special.
I made her shoulders
strong enough to carry
the weight of the world, yet,
made her arms gentle enough to give comfort...
I gave her the inner strength
to endure childbirth
and the rejection
that many times will come
even from her own children.
I gave her a hardness
that allows her
to keep going and take care
of her family and friends,
even when everyone else gives up, through sickness and fatigue without
complaining. ...
I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances. Even when her child has hurt her badly....
She has the very special power to make a child's boo-boo feel better and to quell a teenager's anxieties and fears....
I gave her strength to care for her husband, despite faults and I fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart....
I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly. ...
For all of this hard work,
I also gave her a tear to shed.
It is hers to use
whenever needed and !
it is her only weakness....
When you see her cry,
tell her how much you love her, and all she does for everyone, and even though she may still cry, you will have made her heart feel good.
She is special!
Each day is a mountain that must be climbed; with courage each step gets easier. and that courage is Provided by MOTHER...
Love your Mother Always and keep her Smiling
"Because I'm a woman," she told him.
"I don't understand," he said.
His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will, but that's O.K.".......
Later the little boy asked his father,
"Why does Mom seem to cry for no reason?".
"All women cry for no reason," was all his Dad could say......
The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry.
Finally he put in a call to God and when God got back to him, he asked "God, why do women cry so easily?"
GOD answered.... ..
"When I made woman,
I decided she had to be special.
I made her shoulders
strong enough to carry
the weight of the world, yet,
made her arms gentle enough to give comfort...
I gave her the inner strength
to endure childbirth
and the rejection
that many times will come
even from her own children.
I gave her a hardness
that allows her
to keep going and take care
of her family and friends,
even when everyone else gives up, through sickness and fatigue without
complaining. ...
I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances. Even when her child has hurt her badly....
She has the very special power to make a child's boo-boo feel better and to quell a teenager's anxieties and fears....
I gave her strength to care for her husband, despite faults and I fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart....
I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly. ...
For all of this hard work,
I also gave her a tear to shed.
It is hers to use
whenever needed and !
it is her only weakness....
When you see her cry,
tell her how much you love her, and all she does for everyone, and even though she may still cry, you will have made her heart feel good.
She is special!
Each day is a mountain that must be climbed; with courage each step gets easier. and that courage is Provided by MOTHER...
Love your Mother Always and keep her Smiling
It was therefore
not out of place that our pre-primary Sancta-Marians decided to convert the
celebration of the day of the woman to a celebration of the day of their
mothers.
It was a day
full of fun for our small ones. You could see the smiles on their faces as each
of them held their mothers and gently negotiated their way to the open
amphi-theatre. They happily danced and the occasion was graced with their
smiles and fanfare. All the mothers were present. It was indeed a day for our
small ones to be grateful to the women who became their mothers.
-Mr.Elvis
Tachu and Ms. Kavita